{"id":1636,"date":"2010-04-02T07:49:54","date_gmt":"2010-04-02T07:49:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/povestea-unei-muste-motivate\/"},"modified":"2026-04-26T10:53:32","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T10:53:32","slug":"povestea-unei-muste-motivate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/povestea-unei-muste-motivate\/","title":{"rendered":"Povestea unei mu\u0219te motivate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 .av-special-heading-tag .heading-char{\nfont-size:25px;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\n.av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 .av-subheading{\nfont-size:15px;\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 480px) and (max-width: 767px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (max-width: 479px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-m8zmo64b-cd2c3c12dfc29c9c206c6e49fd574045 av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Povestea unei mu\u0219te motivate<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m8zn4a0o-6c5bd34c9a5ec80186f883061a9887bb\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-m8zn4a0o-6c5bd34c9a5ec80186f883061a9887bb .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-m8zn4a0o-6c5bd34c9a5ec80186f883061a9887bb '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1614 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"439\" height=\"247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly.jpg 1366w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly-1030x579.jpg 1030w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/fly-705x396.jpg 705w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 439px) 100vw, 439px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A fost odat\u0103 o musca, care alaturi de alte c\u00e2teva mu\u0219te zbura \u0219i b\u00e2z\u00e2ia \u00eentr-o camera de hotel, \u00een timp ce camerista f\u0103cea ordine, cu fereastra deschisa pentru a aerisi.<br \/>\nZiua era \u00eensorit\u0103 \u0219i cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de obicei, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd cate o musca ie\u0219ea, alta intra, \u00een timp ce musca noastr\u0103 continua s\u0103 exploreze camera.<br \/>\nOdat\u0103 ce \u00ee\u0219i terminase treaba, camerista \u00eenchise fereastra \u0219i ie\u0219i din camera.<br \/>\nDup\u0103 un timp musca noastr\u0103 sim\u021bi nevoia de a lua un pic de aer: presim\u021bind atmosfera prim\u0103v\u0103ratic\u0103 de afara, se \u00eendrept\u0103 cu hot\u0103r\u00e2re c\u0103tre spa\u021biul albastru \u0219i ..BONK!<\/p>\n<p>Ceva s-a interpus intre ea \u0219i obiectivul sau.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCretino, nu vezi geamul? acum fereastra e \u00eenchis\u0103\u201d, \u00eei striga una din celelalte mu\u0219te din camera.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i cum musca BONK! insista BONK! BONK! o alta a strigat la ea: \u201eE\u0219ti surd\u0103?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Musca noastr\u0103 nu era surda; pur \u0219i simplu, frecventase toate cursurile posibile de PTL, QTP, RSC, YYY, avea toate diplomele, certific\u0103rile aferente, \u0219i pastra o viziune foarte pozitiva asupra vie\u021bii.<br \/>\n\u00cen consecin\u021b\u0103, desi pu\u021bin ame\u021bit\u0103, r\u0103spunse cu vocea plina de convingere: \u201dnu sunte\u021bi dec\u00e2t un roi de biete mu\u0219te ratate, pline de credin\u021be limitative, \u0219i a\u0219a-zisul vostru geam nu-i dec\u00e2t una din acestea. La\u0219a\u021bi-m\u0103 \u00een pace!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>De aceea, f\u0103cu o analiza rapida a situa\u021biei: \u0219tia unde se g\u0103sea (\u00een camera) \u0219i avea un obiectiv clar (s\u0103 ias\u0103 afara), bine formulat \u0219i exprimat \u00een termeni pozitivi; era c\u00e2t se poate de SMART (Specific, M\u0103surabil, Accesibil, Realistic \u0219i bazat pe Timp), era puternic motivata (\u00eentr-at\u00e2t c\u0103 nu mai suporta o companie at\u00e2t de pesimista), era absolut convinsa c\u0103 poate trece dincolo de fereastra (oare nu v\u0103zuse cu proprii ochi alte mu\u0219te intr\u00e2nd \u0219i ie\u0219ind pu\u021bin mai \u00eenainte?) \u0219i a decis s\u0103 treac\u0103 la ac\u021biune masiva, implicandu-se total \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p>Prin urmare, pornise cu \u021boa\u021b\u0103 energie, \u0219i\u2026BONK!<br \/>\n\u201cCretino, dar nu ai auzit ce \u021bi-am zis?\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cNu! Termina\u021bi cu g\u00e2ndirea voastr\u0103 negativista! Fiecare.. BONK! \u00ee\u0219i creeaz\u0103 propria realitate\u2026BONK!\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cDar nu crezi c\u0103-i \u00een avantajul t\u0103u s\u0103 iei \u00een considerare \u0219i alte alternative?\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cGlumi\u021bi! BONK! A asculta opiniile altora BONK! e sursa sigura de confuzie BONK! da na\u0219tere dubiilor BONK! \u0219i \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 convingerile c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103toare BONK! BONK! BONK!<br \/>\n\u201cDar e\u0219ti nebuna sau te prefaci?\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cLa\u0219a\u021bi-m\u0103 \u00een pace BONK! Nu voi permite c\u0103 negativismul vostru BONK! s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eempiedice BONK! s\u0103-mi ating obiectivele BONK!<\/p>\n<p>Intre timp, una dintre mu\u0219te \u0219i-a dat sema c\u0103 se poate ie\u0219i foarte frumos printr-o fisura a u\u0219ii \u2026<br \/>\n\u201dHei,pe aici!\u201d \u0219i una cate una ie\u0219ir\u0103 la soare!<\/p>\n<p>Din interiorul camerei, bine\u00een\u021beles, continua s\u0103 se aud\u0103: BONK! BONK! Bonk! Bonk! Bonk! b\u2026o\u2026n..k!<\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2014-<br \/>\nNu cred c\u0103 pot fi acuzat de g\u00e2ndirea negativista sau de credin\u021be limitative: \u00eentreag\u0103 mea activitate, \u0219i nu numai \u00een calitate de trainer sau coach, ci de fiecare data c\u00e2nd mi se prezinta ocazia, nu este dec\u00e2t un efort costant \u00een a impulsiona pe mine \u0219i ceilati spre realiz\u0103rile cele mai mari, spre descoperirea posibilit\u0103\u021bilor neb\u0103nuite, spre accesarea resurselor interioare de existenta c\u0103rora suntem incon\u0219tien\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Totu\u0219i, c\u00e2nd v\u0103d c\u0103 principalul mesaj care-mi caracterizeaz\u0103 activitatea este distorsionat, simt nevoia de a m\u0103 \u00eempotrivi: mentalitatea care insista cu afirma\u021bii gen <em>\u201cbelieve &amp; achieve\u201d<\/em>, gen <em>\u201csuntem zei care creeaz\u0103 lumea\u201d<\/em>, gen <em>\u201climitele exista numai \u00een mintea noastr\u0103\u201d<\/em>, gen <em>\u201cdaca g\u00e2ndesc intens un lucru legea atrac\u021biei i-l v\u0103 aduce la mine\u201d<\/em>, m\u0103 face s\u0103 cred c\u0103 \u2013 \u00een loc de oameni de succes \u2013 nu v\u0103 crea dec\u00e2t persoane dezam\u0103gite \u0219i frustrate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ar lua prea mult timp s\u0103 fac un discurs serios pe tema asta, dar eu cred c\u0103 \u00een fiecare moment ar trebui s\u0103 exista un simt a realit\u0103\u021bi. \u0218i ar trebui \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 a pastra o viziune deschisa \u0219i creativa asupra realit\u0103\u021bii, a g\u0103si o semnifica\u021bie pozitiva din punct de vedere emo\u021bional, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 o negare a acesteia.<\/p>\n<p>Multe din informa\u021biile ce se predau la unele cursuri \u201cmotiva\u021bionale\u201d foarte la moda, chiar daca ascunse sub un jargon aparent \u0219tiin\u021bific, nu reprezint\u0103 altceva dec\u00e2t \u00eentoarcerea la g\u00e2ndirea magica unui copil care trimite scrisorii lui Mo\u0219 Cr\u0103ciun urm\u00e2nd \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i a\u0219teapt\u0103 cadourile.<\/p>\n<p>A\u0219adar, eu v\u0103 invit s\u0103 v\u0103 concentra\u021bi asupra posibilit\u0103\u021bilor \u0219i nu asupra obstacolelor, dar asta nu implica negarea existentei lor, ci a g\u0103si o solu\u021bie creativa pentru a le dep\u0103\u0219i.<br \/>\n\u0218i \u00een timp ce posibilit\u0103\u021bile sunt mereu nelimitate, asta nu \u00eensemn\u0103 deloc c\u0103 totul este posibil: tr\u0103im pe P\u0103m\u00e2nt, nu \u00een filmele lui Walt Disney.<\/p>\n<p>De aceea v\u0103 sf\u0103tuiesc s\u0103 folosi\u021bi cu \u00eencredere deplina toate tehnicile motiva\u021bionale, dar nu la\u0219a\u021bi niciodat\u0103 c\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103 de a crede \u00een ceva s\u0103 v\u0103 orbeasca \u00een fata realit\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Sau, folosind cuvintele unui geniu c\u0103 Isaac Asimov <em>\u201cTrebuie s\u0103 avem mintea deschisa; dar nu a\u0219a de deschisa \u00eenc\u00e2t creierul s\u0103 cada jos\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Un salut<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/despre-bruno-medicina\/\">Bruno<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014\u2013<\/p>\n<p>PS Unii ar vrea s\u0103 \u0219tie ce s-a mai \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu musca noastr\u0103\u2026ei bine, ceva foarte interesant\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Musca noastr\u0103, \u00eentr-un moment de pauza printre un BONK! \u0219i altul, obosita \u0219i enervata de at\u00e2tea lovituri nu-\u0219i d\u0103du seama, c\u0103 odat\u0103 \u00eentoars\u0103 \u00een camera, camerista redeschise fereastra.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd dup\u0103 o noua \u00eencercare, se g\u0103si libera \u00een afara, \u00eencepu s\u0103 strige \u00een gura mare:\u201dFunc\u021bioneaz\u0103! Func\u021bioneaz\u0103! Eram sigura c\u0103 voi \u00eenvinge \u00een cele din urma!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>De atunci, de fiecare data c\u00e2nd musca noastr\u0103 se g\u0103se\u0219te \u00eenchis\u0103 undeva, continua s\u0103 loveasc\u0103 contra geamului, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd se v\u0103 g\u0103si un suflet bun care care v\u0103 de\u0219chid\u0103 fereastra. Nu \u0219tim cu precizie c\u00e2t a durat perioada cea mai lunga de lovituri, dar \u0219tim c\u0103 musca noastr\u0103 n-o duce prea r\u0103u, \u00een afara unei u\u0219oare intoxica\u021bii cu analgezice. Astfel c\u00e2nd nu e ocupata s\u0103 izbeasc\u0103 cu capul contra geamurilor, tine seminarii de KIR-FT \u2013 o noua \u0219i revolu\u021bionar\u0103 tehnica \u2013 pentru care pretinde sume exorbitante \u0219i \u00een care aduce dramatica, dar exaltanta s\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 drept dovada a eficacit\u0103\u021bii cursurilor predate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0218i cum, nici o musca nu-i at\u00e2t de cretina, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu g\u0103seasc\u0103 cel pu\u021bin altele treizeci mai cretine dec\u00e2t ea dispuse s\u0103 o cread\u0103, \u0219i s\u0103 i pl\u0103teasc\u0103 certific\u0103rile \u0219i diplomele, face afaceri de aur!<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eBONK!\u201d Povestea hilar\u0103 \u0219i tragic\u0103 a unei mu\u0219te extrem de motivate. 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