{"id":1641,"date":"2007-04-02T07:31:51","date_gmt":"2007-04-02T07:31:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/valorifica-potentialul-tau-nu-incerca-sa-semeni-cu-altii\/"},"modified":"2026-04-26T12:01:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T12:01:27","slug":"valorifica-potentialul-tau-nu-incerca-sa-semeni-cu-altii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/valorifica-potentialul-tau-nu-incerca-sa-semeni-cu-altii\/","title":{"rendered":"Valorifica potentialul tau, nu incerca sa semeni cu altii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857\">\n#top .av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857{\npadding-bottom:10px;\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\nbody .av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 .av-special-heading-tag .heading-char{\nfont-size:25px;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:3vw;\n}\n.av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 .av-subheading{\nfont-size:15px;\n}\n\n@media only screen and (min-width: 480px) and (max-width: 767px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n\n@media only screen and (max-width: 479px){ \n#top #wrap_all .av-special-heading.av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 .av-special-heading-tag{\nfont-size:46px;\n}\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='av-special-heading av-m8zm1lq2-3131c2a2de7a5ab78bbd86e3ffaf5857 av-special-heading-h2 blockquote modern-quote  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first  av-inherit-size'><h2 class='av-special-heading-tag '  itemprop=\"headline\"  >Valorifica potentialul tau, nu incerca sa semeni cu altii<\/h2><div class=\"special-heading-border\"><div class=\"special-heading-inner-border\"><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-m8zmdz0t-ee37e9cae01c3944c08d31be06ac1ca7\">\n#top .av_textblock_section.av-m8zmdz0t-ee37e9cae01c3944c08d31be06ac1ca7 .avia_textblock{\nfont-size:17px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-m8zmdz0t-ee37e9cae01c3944c08d31be06ac1ca7 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1606 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"439\" height=\"247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle.jpg 1366w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle-1030x579.jpg 1030w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/eagle-705x396.jpg 705w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 439px) 100vw, 439px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00centr-o zi, plimbandu-se prin p\u0103dure, un om g\u0103si un pui de vultur de abia ie\u0219it din g\u0103oace. Dandu-\u0219i seama c\u0103 daca l-ar fi la\u0219at acolo, singur \u0219i p\u0103r\u0103sit, l-ar fi condamnat la moarte sigura, omul lua puiul acas\u0103 \u0219i-l puse \u00eentr-un cote\u021b, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu niste pui de g\u0103in\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Puiul de vultur crescu alaturi de ace\u0219tia \u0219i, bine\u00een\u021beles, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 se poarte c\u0103 o g\u0103in\u0103: scormonea p\u0103m\u00e2ntul pentru a g\u0103si viermi \u0219i insecte, manca semin\u021bele pe care i le d\u0103dea st\u0103p\u00e2nul, clonc\u0103nea \u0219i cotcod\u0103cea, iar daca b\u0103tea din aripi nu se ridica mai mult de c\u00e2teva zeci de centimetri.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Au trecut astfel c\u00e2teva luni, timp \u00een care vulturul nu se \u00eendoi nici o clipa c\u0103 locul lui ar fi altundeva dec\u00e2t \u00een curtea st\u0103p\u00e2nului, printre celelalte g\u0103ini. Mai mult, era convins c\u0103 el \u00eensu\u0219i este o g\u0103in\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd, \u00eentr-o zi, privind spre cerul albastru \u0219i far\u0103 nori, v\u0103zu un alt vultur plan\u00e2nd maiestuos, aproape far\u0103 a-\u0219i mi\u0219c\u0103 aripile robuste\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Vulturul a \u00een\u021beles dintr-o data care este adev\u0103rat\u0103 lui natura. \u0218i-a dat seama c\u0103 nu exista obstacole care s\u0103-l \u00eempiedice s\u0103 zboare, \u00een afara de cele din mintea lui, \u0219i, dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva tentative, s-a ridicat \u00een zbor spre infinit, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r liber.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>*******************************<\/p>\n<p>Far\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103, cea mai mare parte a cititorilor cunoa\u0219te aceasta povestioara f\u0103cut\u0103 celebra de Anthony de Mello, \u0219i foarte mult folosita \u00een c\u0103r\u021bile de self help, training-uri, speech-uri motiva\u021bionale s.a.m.d. \u0218i eu am folosit-o \u00eentr-un articol, acum mult timp.<\/p>\n<p>Totu\u0219i, ceea ce este mai pu\u021bin cunoscut este efectul pe care \u00eent\u00e2mplarea aceasta l-a avut asupra celorlal\u021bi locuitori ai cur\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce au v\u0103zut c\u0103 fostul lor tovar\u0103\u0219 de joaca \u0219i de semin\u021be \u0219i-a luat zborul, pierzadu-se \u00een imensitatea cerului, multe din g\u0103ini au devenit con\u0219tiente de trista lor situa\u021bie \u0219i au \u00eenceput s\u0103 viseze s\u0103 devina vulturi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cencepur\u0103 s\u0103 circule, la \u00eenceput aproape clandestin, apoi mai deschis, niste filosofii ciudate care argumentau c\u0103 fiecare g\u0103in\u0103 avea \u00een\u0103untrul sau un vultur care a\u0219tept\u0103 s\u0103 fie eliberat. \u201cCondi\u021bia de g\u0103in\u0103 nu este dec\u00e2t rezultatul unor credin\u021be limitante\u201d, substineau niste g\u0103ini-profete, \u201cschimba\u021bi credin\u021bele, \u0219i cerul v\u0103 fi al vostru\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Ap\u0103ruser\u0103 tot felul de c\u0103r\u021bi \u00een domeniu, cu titluri gen \u201cCum s\u0103 devii un vultur \u00een 30 de zile\u201d, \u201cVulturocibernetica\u201d, \u201cAnaliza vulturactionala\u201d, \u201cMinunile zborului\u201d, \u201cDeclan\u0219eaz\u0103 vulturul din tine\u201d samd.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru cei care aveau bani de cheltuit, ap\u0103ruser\u0103 \u0219i seminarii de PGL (Programare Gainolingvistica) \u0219i cursuri audio \u0219i video, unde se \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 cum s\u0103 vizualizezi lumea v\u0103zut\u0103 de sus, cum s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti sunetele celorlalte pas\u0103ri (s\u0103 te pui \u00een rapport), cum s\u0103 percepi senza\u021bia v\u00e2ntului \u00een aripile tale (condita de vultur nu poate fi atinsa far\u0103 concentrare asupra canalelor senzoriale potrivite).<\/p>\n<p>Mai interesant, ap\u0103ruse \u0219i o metoda de analiza (Ennagainogramma), care depista 9 feluri de a fi g\u0103in\u0103, \u0219i \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103 9 drumuri diferite spre a deveni vultur. Ap\u0103ruser\u0103 \u0219i niste tehnici, cum ar fi Echilibrul Gainoemotional \u0219i CFT (chicken freedom technique), care te \u00eenv\u0103\u021bau ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 daca ape\u0219i pe niste puncte de pe cap \u0219i piept spun\u00e2nd \u201cIubesc \u0219i respect aripile mele\u201d, \u0219i anume c\u0103 i\u021bi v\u0103 trece frica de \u00een\u0103l\u021bime (principalul obstacol \u00een drumul de dezvoltare spre condi\u021bia de vultur).<\/p>\n<p>O g\u0103in\u0103 mai \u00eentreprinz\u0103toare dec\u00e2t celelalte puse la cale un sistem de multilevel marketing care consta \u00eentr-un complex sistem de puncte care se ob\u021bineau v\u00e2nz\u00e2nd cursuri \u0219i seminarii celorlate g\u0103ini, argument\u00e2nd c\u0103 ridicarea \u00een ierarhia sistemului era metoda cea mai sigura pentru a se apropria de starea de vultur.<\/p>\n<p>Cine frecventa un num\u0103r suficient de cursuri putea s\u0103 devina \u201cassociate gainocoach certificat\u201d (AGC) \u0219i \u00eei ajuta pe ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 mearg\u0103 mai r\u0103pid pe drumul dezvolt\u0103rii.<\/p>\n<p>Nu e nevoie s\u0103 spun c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd cineva, \u00een lipsa totala a unor rezultate concrete, \u00ee\u0219i exprima \u00eendoielile asupra sensului pe care l-ar avea \u021boa\u021b\u0103 treaba asta, era imediat acuzat \u2013 din partea celor mai exalta\u021bi \u0219i convin\u0219i \u2013 c\u0103 este st\u0103p\u00e2nit de credin\u021be limintante \u0219i blocat de g\u00e2ndul negativ.<\/p>\n<p>Mai ales, i se repeta \u00een continuu: \u201cAminte\u0219te-\u021bi de fostul nostru tovar\u0103\u0219, care dup\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 de g\u0103in\u0103 a putut s\u0103 zboare; pune angajament \u0219i credin\u021b\u0103, \u0219i o s\u0103 reu\u0219e\u0219ti \u0219i tu.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>*******************************<\/p>\n<p>Chiar daca, a\u0219a cum am zis, uneori am folosit-o \u0219i eu, povestioara aia m-a enervat \u00een permanenta pentru c\u0103 presupune c\u0103 un vultur e mai bun dec\u00e2t o g\u0103in\u0103 \u0219i face o confruntare stupida intre doua fiin\u021be cu poten\u021bialit\u0103\u021bi, talente \u0219i forte diferite.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i aici nu este vorba de a lua ap\u0103rarea cui are mai pu\u021bine talente sau cui este mai slab, ci de a m\u0103 \u00eempotrivi unui \u00eentreg sistemul social conceput s\u0103 produc\u0103 nemul\u021bumirea permenenta \u0219i lipsa de satisfac\u021bie propun\u00e2nd modele imposibil de egalat, \u0219i industria adiacenta care i\u021bi vinde \u201csolu\u021bii\u201d \u00een timp ce alergi dup\u0103 aceste modele imposibile.<\/p>\n<p>E acela\u0219i mecanism prin care \u021bi se arata cel care a castigat un miliard la loto, \u0219i te convinge c\u0103 o s\u0103 \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mple la fel.<\/p>\n<p>E acela\u0219i mecanism prin care \u021bi se arata o supervedeta, \u0219i \u021bi se spune c\u0103 daca cumperi setul de machiaj (parfum\/rochie\/cercei\u2026) o s\u0103 fii c\u0103 ea.<\/p>\n<p>E mecanismul prin care o societate care are din ce \u00een ce mai mult devine din ce \u00een ce mai nesatisf\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i nemul\u021bumit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Eu, sincer, cred c\u0103 un vultur este un vultur, \u0219i o g\u0103in\u0103 o g\u0103in\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i cred c\u0103 pot exista vulturi prosti \u0219i g\u0103ini superbe, \u0219i c\u0103 o confruntare este asolut far\u0103 sens.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i cred c\u0103 fiecare ar trebui s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exploateze poten\u021bialul far\u0103 s\u0103 se confrunte cu altcineva \u00een afara de sine, mai ales cu modele impuse de cineva care are c\u0103 singurul scop s\u0103 i\u021bi vinda \u201csolu\u021biile\u201d lui.<\/p>\n<p>Bine\u00een\u021beles, eu primul cred \u2013 \u0219i \u021boa\u021b\u0103 activitatea mea se bazeaz\u0103 pe asta \u2013 c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi are poten\u021bialit\u0103\u021bi fantastice, \u0219i nu pierd ocazia de a reaminti credin\u021b\u0103 asta \u0219i de a ajuta lumea \u2013 pe c\u00e2t pot \u2013 s\u0103 intre \u00een contact cu aceste poten\u021bialit\u0103\u021bi, \u0219i eu\u00a0primul predau \u0219i aplic tehnicile psihologice care \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021besc performanta \u0219i ajuta \u00een dezvoltar\u0103 personala.<\/p>\n<p>Dar c\u00e2nd v\u0103d lumea care se chinuie s\u0103 se conformeze la niste modele imposibile, urm\u00e2nd sfaturile v\u00e2nz\u0103torilor de \u201camerican dream\u201d (de multe ori mai confuzi dec\u00e2t discipolii), m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 poate trebuie cineva care s\u0103 atrag\u0103 aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i s\u0103 aminteasc\u0103 c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi e unic, c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi are at\u00e2tea talente \u0219i posibilit\u0103\u021bi \u00eenc\u00e2t, daca \u0219i le-ar exploata nu i-ar mai r\u0103m\u00e2ne timp pentru a invidia pe altcineva.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nu urma modele, fii tu un model!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>******************************<\/p>\n<p>Ultimele \u0219tiri din cote\u021b \u00eemi confirma c\u0103 niste g\u0103ini s-au \u00eembog\u0103\u021bit, altele tot caut\u0103 tehnica potrivita pentru a se ridica \u00een zbor, \u0219i altele a\u0219teapt\u0103 venirea Marii G\u0103inii care \u00eei v\u0103 scoate din condi\u021bia lor.<\/p>\n<p>Din cate am aflat, nimeni dintre ei nu s-a mai ridicat de la p\u0103m\u00e2nt mai mult dec\u00e2t niste zeci de centimetri\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Un salut,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/despre-bruno-medicina\/\">Bruno<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu mai \u00eencerca s\u0103 fii vultur dac\u0103 e\u0219ti g\u0103in\u0103. O satir\u0103 str\u0103lucit\u0103 la adresa industriei c\u0103r\u021bilor de autoajutorare, a iluziei \u201econvingerilor limitative\u201d \u0219i a modului \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi po\u021bi dezv\u0103lui cu adev\u0103rat poten\u021bialul unic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1610,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized-ro","category-article-ro"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1641"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2176,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1641\/revisions\/2176"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypercoaching.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}